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Umm Bechir
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(5/11/03 8:14 pm)
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Can a man divorce his wife for fear his mother finds out
I recently got married to a man who is not of the same culture as I. He is asian i am not.. He told me he would tell his family soon that we got married..now he has blurted out talaaq due to fear of his family finding out saying it would break his mothers heart if she found out. I am pregnant also with his child but do not feel i can carry on my pregnancy without a husband.. Is he doing the right thing as he is obeying the wishes of his mother even thou he does not know her wishes...Is the hadith about our mother's and respecting them and obeying them, mean that he is allowed to divorce a pracitising muslimah because his mother would be heart broken and never accept a non asian daughter in law??

Please help as i am distraught especially over my pregnancy.

muslimah
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(7/5/03 12:31 am)
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re:Can a man divorce his wife for fear his mother finds out
Sorry this reply is a bit late but anyway, a marriage is not valid in islam unless both your parents approve- unless of course they are not muslim or are muslim but do not pray as the prophet said (more or less) that what seperates a muslim and a kufr is his salaat. So technicall if they dont pray then they are not muslim. So if thats the case then you're marriage is valid.
What he is doing isnt right? why hadnt he thought of the consequences before he married you? This doesnt soud like something a mature practicing muslim man would do! What if the parents knew you were pregnant would it make a difference to them?
He needs to be careful about this word(talaaq) 3 strikes and thats it. I know of a couple who love each other however he couldnt control his tongue and had to divorce, they both suffered.

marygracespeedlinkcomau
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(12/10/03 8:36 am)
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about my daughter and her muslum boyfriend from jakata
hi i'am grace my daughter has a boy friend that she meet on the ship and they have had a relationship for 5mth's we found out that he was married and has a little girl he said he was seperated for 2yr's he home at the moment he has not rang for nearly 5week;s he want;s to come on a holiday visa but we have hot heared from him he told my daughter he wan;t her to teach her and show her the right way i'am worried about this as my daughter is not well at all as we don;t know were he is or what he is doing please can you advice me as my daughter is hearting deepley p s he was so good to her and though the world of her thankyou for reading my letter please reply

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