Everything's changing
I feel I had to post in agony because right now I feel the worst perhaps I've ever felt in my life. I've been on a 1 year art course at uni and in 3 weeks it'll all be over. Most of my mates failed to get into higher education, including my best mate who's name is Adam.
The thing is, he says he wants to move away next year and the thought of him going is tearing me apart. He's one of the closest friends I've ever had - we have so much in common and I really enjoying spending time with him. Even if we don't talk that much, I'm just happy being near him. There's a chance he might not move away, but even if he doesn't things won't be the same - this course is ending and we won't be able to hang out together like we usually do.
I'm just so upset that I might never see him again. I keep myself busy with work and stuff, but I end up thinking about him from time to time and I have to fight back the tears. I know it sounds stupid, but he means that much to me. I'm not looking for any solutions to this problem, I just had to get it off my chest.
i know how you feel! my world is all chaining at the moment too. i also am just finishing my Diploma at college and have become great friends with the girls on my course, we have seen each other through thick and thin, and are all sad at leaving each other, but we all speak on MSN and have each others phone numbers and keep in contact and we have all pledged to see each other as a whole group in 6 months time to catch up! You may feel like you are losing people, but when you move on to whatever you will move onto there will be new people you meet and you may even find someone just as special as him. I felt this way when i left school, and i look back now and i just hink , Why did i ever worry, its a doddle, got it all done and here i am finishing it! I bet you will keep in contact and if he does moves away, then well the best thing to do would be move on yourself,like the Greggs advert says "Dont Let Go, Can't Move On' so my advice to you would be to cherish what time you have left, ensure you have each others contact details and then move on with your own lives! All the best with it!
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Thanks for that. What you've said makes sense. I know in a few months I won't feel as bad - if I get into proper university then I'll make new friends and all that, and even if I don't I'll move on anyway. Still, I think I'll need a big cry on the last day of college!
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Im going through the same too, ive just finished year 11 and nothing will ever be the same, all i keep saying to myself is that the people i want to see again i will.
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when i left school everyone said they would keep in touch but none of them did but i went to college and made so many amazing new friends, who i've kept in touch with since finishing A levels 2 years ago. we all went off to diferent uni's and havent seen that much of each other but we have so many ways to communicate now, email, msn, forums like this one, text, phone, so its all good.
all i would suggest is you watch out for false promises. people who are true friends stay in touch. its a real eye opener when u leave school/college,
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