How do I get over them?
I have had this mega crush on this boy in my year (year 9) for about half a year now. I can't stop thinking about them and I everytime I see them I'm like . We never talk to each other and the only reason I've ever stood next to him is coz he's friends with my friend. I'm not out (even though every one at school thinks I'm gay anyway) and I'm sure he's not gay (well apart from the fact he has the word dildo in his email addess). I don't really wanna feel like this because I know I have no chance of getting him. Does anyone have any tips on how to overcome this crush?
Thanx
.:: Alex ::.
Edited by: heartfreddieprinzejr at: 16/5/04 16:12
You sound just like me when i was in Year 9 at School, i had a crush on about 5 different lads, and well was just always thinking about them!
The best thing to do is try to keep it at bay, and keep it for all those wanking sessions you have - but if you do get a chance to say hello or chat and it feels right, chat to him, saying hello and that isn't going hurt -
I just went onto my friends account (the one that knows my crush) and his name is something with about 50 girls names and "I love u Katie" at the end so now I'm sure I have no chance
In my experience you just wait for the next crush to come along and boot out the last one. Even though I'm in a happy relationship I always seem to have a crush on the go - sometimes two at once. I treat them as innocent, daydreaming diversions.
Re: How do I get over them?
enjoy it while it lasts!
life has been extremely boring since leaving school and having no repressed teenage crushes on gorgeous lads freaking out about their repressed/ overtly- hetero sexuality.
The men at work are mingers. At my second job there are no men.
At school i swear i thought i was in an episode of Dawson's Creek with the amount of unrequited love/lust i tortured myself with. It's actually alot of fun i now realise in retrospect whilst i contemplate the "stunners" who'll be on offer at work tomorrow.
but obviously in 95 percent of cases ain't nothing gonna happen- so enjoy the impossible possibilties, and get to know the palm of you hand better and better
Re: How do I get over them?
i can't tell you what to do, i'm still working on that one myself! I can tell you what not to do though. I used to think i was in love with this guy from school, probably about year 9 actually. Anyway, me and my friend started hanging out with him at lunchtimes and my friend told him that i fancied him (i was very annoyed because i hadn't officially come out!) Anyway in a conversation, as a joke 1 day, my friend asked the guy i fancied how much he charges for a peek at his pecker, and he said £5 (talk about cheap!) Anyway, i'll put it down to youth, but i went 4 it! it was fun at the time but it made things very awkward later. Hey i'm sure this doesn't help you at all as i doubt you will ever be in that situation, but hey, it's a fun story to tell!
. We never talk to each other and the only reason I've ever stood next to him is coz he's friends with my friend. I'm not out (even though every one at school thinks I'm gay anyway) and I'm sure he's not gay (well apart from the fact he has the word dildo in his email addess). I don't really wanna feel like this because I know I have no chance of getting him. Does anyone have any tips on how to overcome this crush?
Alex 
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