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tjzmyheart
Taj's Future Wifey!
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(10/22/05 1:05 pm)
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How much should we know . . . .
about 3T's private lives? Do you think that their private life is just that, private? Or do you think they should share certain things with us (i.e. whether or not they have girlfriends, kids etc) because we "care"? If they do choose to share these things with us, how much is too much? And if you inadvertantly find out something about them, do you keep it to yourself or do you feel obligated to share it with other fans?

Tell me what you think.

JacksonLover79
Taryll's Sweetie
Posts: 109
(10/23/05 8:12 pm)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
First of all, where in the world did this question come from? :rolleyes I don't understand why you're asking it, but I'll answer it anyway. :lol

Because 3T are entertainers, and they knew a certain level of publicity would always be a part of their lives, I can see how some could argue that the boys should share more than they do about their personal lives, but I do not agree. I have to say that the only thing(s) they are obligated to share with us are their music and their pretty faces. lol. Okay, so I added the pretty faces part because I think Taryll is cute. lol. But you know what I mean. As long as they dish out the music (which I have to say I'm already feeling a little lonely for and pining after, but that's a whole other story), they're doing fine by me. As they should for every other fan out there.

Now I also understand that there are some fans who are only fans because of the fact that they have some kind of fantasy that one (or all) of the boys is (are) the man of her dreams, and so they want to know more and more about their personal lives. As a bonafied Taryll addict myself, I can honestly say that it's a tempting prospect, knowing all there is to know about Taryll, knowing more than just a fan should know, but I also know that there are limits, boundaries, and tact for this sort of thing. A "normal" artist/fan relationship should not include every facet of life, no matter how interesting that may seem. Everyone deserves his privacy. Especially such a songwriter as Taryll. (Notice how my comments are always in a Taryll fan perspective? I suppose you could apply the same principles for Taj and TJ fans as well. I can't leave y'all out. lol.)

As for the last part of that loaded question, whether or not I would share anything I learned about any of the boys, however inadvertantly, the answer is HELL NO! Was that clear enough?

Personal and private, personal and private. You just keep repeating that to yourself if you're ever in such a predicament. Would you tell all your other friends about one particular friend just because you know something they don't? Absolutely not! If you do, then you're not a real friend, and no one needs or wants friends like that.

Did I answer your question well enough, Alicia? Anything you'd like me to clear up? You know, I'm listening to Taryll sigh and mumble and sigh "Forever we will stay, together and so strong... in the brotherhood... brotherhood yeah, yeah...", so I might not be making too much sense at the moment. :hat

Edited by: JacksonLover79 at: 10/27/05 1:18 pm
tjzmyheart
Taj's Future Wifey!
Posts: 74
(10/24/05 10:21 am)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
The question stemmed from a conversation I had with someone recently. We started talking about Taj and though I didn't realize it until afterwards, it went farther than it should have, and I said a little too much. I almost got lambasted for it, with someone else outside of the intial conversation, threatened to run back and tell Taj. (Apparently, they've been in contact with him before). You and I both know I would never say anything to hurt him, but I felt like I should have kept my mouth shut in that instance.


I feel the way you do; that we don't need to know everything. At the same time, I realize that I know A LOT more than I probably should.

I've learned my lesson, though, and I'm NEVER doing that again.

JacksonLover79
Taryll's Sweetie
Posts: 109
(10/27/05 1:24 pm)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
From what you've told me, what you know about 3T is common information if only we've been fans long enough. It's not like you have secret information, it's just old information, information that newer fans (like me!) wouldn't know, so you don't have anything to worry about. Whoever you were talking to was just overreacting. Some people just take things out of proportion. >:

mssportygirl
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Posts: 7
(10/29/05 2:46 pm)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
Very true I totally agree with ya Milady.

JacksonLover79
Taryll's Sweetie
Posts: 110
(10/31/05 8:04 pm)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
So tell me, Alicia. Do you feel better now that we've taken your side? :rollin

;)

ladiicx2005
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(4/9/06 4:09 am)
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Re: How much should we know . . . .
lol i am totally dazed and confused about wat jus happend here lol :\

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