I am currently attempting to make some positive changes in my life, but am running into resistence from a certain individual. Not wanting to interrupt the flow of positive that I have been experiencing since taking a new outlook on life, I am finding it difficult to keep my mind from trying to rationalize everything, and talk myself out of something I feel is a positive thing for myself and especially my children. Although I realize there will be hardships that come with certain decisions, I am willing to deal with those in order to find some sense of who I really am, and better myself, my life.
I am trying to start being true to myself, and what I think and feel, instead of worrying about making everyone else happy and content.
Why do I feel so selfish then!?!
you are always in my thoughts and prayers! I know that this will work out for you; even though it may seem a bit rough at this part of the stages of change. Stay in that place of Love & Light... your decisions will be influenced positively.
Re: In need of positive energy and direction Muchas gracias amigos! I will take to heart the excellent input. Sometimes I guess I need a little affirmation on things. I tend to try and over-rationalize everything when it come to how I feel. TOO much thinking for this chic!
Keep the love coming, I'll keep the love going.....
Thank you Kell, Seema, and Rob!
Re: In need of positive energy and direction
I want to re-address this prayer request and really ask for an abundance of extremely positive energy to be sent to my sister. She is facing a challenge of extraordinary measures... and the fears that come with making a dramatic change. I want to flood her aura and true self with so much Love and Light that making the appropriate decision is blindly natural for her... and that she will have no doubts, no fears, and no limitations to her own abilities to make this positive change.
There is ONE invidividual as she noted in this post that is not letting go of her.... and causing her emotional as well as physical pain... for that I am unable to focus any forgiving energies towards him at this time... instead, I am focusing all my attention and energy on her; for both her sake and for her daughter's sake - who lives in that environment...
Please take a moment to send this prayer request to as many people/boards as possible as it is extremely important that she make this change - before it's too late to make it. I am THAT worried about the other person in her life.
Re: In need of positive energy and direction
Cappy,
Detach yourself from rationality. When YOU are in an abusive situation, there is such a drain on your energy that your light is diminished. If you try and rationalize everything, it only delays your joy. Don’t allow yourself to stay in a place where you’re not in control. You CAN do it!…Just take that next step! Yeah, it’s a doozy, and I know it’s tough, but you have to be tougher. You have to be. This is bigger than you.
Don’t think about it…be strong and just do it! Come on.— Imagine, you’re standing on top of the high dive and it’s your first time. All your friends are at the bottom yelling at you to jump. Yeah, you’re scared as hell and your heart is beating a hundred miles and hour, but when you finally DO it...and you feel the exhilaration as your head breaks the surface of the water and you gasp for air…the entire thing was a blur. Don’t stay in a bad situation, IT’s not healthy and life is too short. What are you waiting for? - Jump.
Muchas gracias amigos! I will take to heart the excellent input. Sometimes I guess I need a little affirmation on things. I tend to try and over-rationalize everything when it come to how I feel. TOO much thinking for this chic! 
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