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My life is over
Terrific. Just perfect. I'm 22, I live with my parents, my boyfriend lives almost 3 hours away, and I'm bloody pregnant. Now what the crap am I gonna do? Life blows monkey chunks. I hate me.
Let's take it one problem at a time:
I don't see being 22 years old as a problem--I'll be that old in around half-a-year's time.
You live with your parents--it can be a good thing; you have them to rely on and give you advice that you have not yet the experience to see on your own. Take advantage of the good things parents can give with ignoring the bad stuff. That's all you can do, accept them as they are, and to try not to let the bad things affect you too much.
Can you and your boyfriend really make a long-distance relationship work? If so, then it shouldn't be a problem. If not, then you have to find a solution; either one of you move closer to the other, or break up (temporarily even, until the situation changes somehow).
As for the last and most important thing: how long have you known? I don't think anyone at this (our) age is ready to take care of a kid, especially when unsupported and unmarried with the rare exceptions (such as an heiress to a multi-billionaire's inheritance). IMHO, get an abortion while it's not too late. If you can't/won't, then I'd recommend giving the child up to adoption.
Yes, both I and those scenarios sound--and probably are--cruel and hard, but the world the child will live in if he has an unmarried mom who can barely support the two of them will be much harder, and someone needs to let you know about the reality--and possiblity--of those two choices. And sometimes, (often, even?) the right choices are the hardest ones to make.
For the future, please try to use protection, be on the pill, or some other way to make sure not to become pregnant, but that's for the future--you can't do anything about that now. Now you simply have to deal with the consequences of your actions, no matter how hard they are to deal with, and hope that you make better choices in the future, as well as learn from past mistakes.
Edited by: Ness Farseer at: 9/19/06 8:19 pm
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Re: My life is over
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okay, first of all...your parents are there to help you take care of the child if necessary.
And if you and your bf are still together....see if the two of you can somehow get closer, so that he can help in the raising of the child as well.
I find abortion to be wrong, and I don't feel you should do it. God gave you this child for a reason; it may seem bad now, but you will eventually come to find out what God's purpose is. I'm sure this child will be a blessing...
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Re: My life is over
That, or find that the child grows up as a social outcast while other kids call him a "bastard" (yes, children can be the cruelest at time), who later turns to drugs in an attempt to fill a gaping hole he feels inside of him that was emptied by all the "templated" families that assault our senses every day on television--a dad, a mom, and two kids, and while the number of kids varies, the father and mother are always there in "good" familieis as shown on television. Would the child feel as though his own family is perverted in some way, growing up having been born out of wedlock by a mother barely out of her teens?
And even if you boyfried is completely and fully supportive of you, wanting to raise the child together, how could he support you? Does he have a job that can feed a family, rent/buy a house, and take care of all of you in a situation that gives you all a decent quality of life?
And btw, *agrees with Nepra*. Life is never over while you're alive. As long as their's life, their the potential for change, and as long as you can change things, there's the potential that the future will be better. We just need to work towards a good future, think about the "big picture", and try to make good choices in life. Furthermore, we're here for you, and we care; if we didn't care, we wouldn't take the time to write these long messages, making so many edits
PS: If you decide to keep the child, please don't do it because ordered to by a religion that requires of you blind faith. Do it because you decided to do it for your own reasons, because you found that at the end it was the most logical answer, and not because you were "told to do it".
Conformism via blind faith is what too often turns "normal" people into blind fanatics wielding pitchforks and torches, ready to bring all the things that they don't understand, and therefore fear, to the torch. What I'm trying to say is that mindless fanaticism is never pretty, and that you should make your own choices for your own reasons, and not because someone told you to do it.
Re: My life is over
Thanks for all the advice guys, I'm still not entirely sure what I'm going to do. My boyfriend wants me to keep it, and he wants me to move in with him up where he is. My only problem is that we've only been going out for 6 months. That's not really long enough to know someone very well.
On the other hand, I don't really believe in abortion. I'm not religious or anything, I don't really believe in God, but I do feel that all life is prescious and divine. I just feel like having a child ruins all my plans. How do I go back to school with an infant?
And I was on birth control. In fact, the last time I checked, I wasn't cycling at all. That usually makes conception a little difficult.
Re: My life is over
Then just one last piece of advice in the form of two questions; What kind of life do you want your child to have (and how do you plan to give that child that kind of life)? And how can you be sure that a man who you've only known for half a year won't change his mind in another year? Just two things to think on...
Re: My life is over
Well, nobody's mentioned another option - adoption. If you choose to have the baby, and then find that you and your boyfriend won't be able to raise it, babies usually go fast in the adoption game. I know I'd think seriously about it if I found out I was pregnant now, although I just don't know what I'd do in the end. Whatever you decide, good luck.
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