None...just stirring the pot.
I hope everyone is having a fine Halloween evening. I happen to be stuck at work watching everyone else have fun. (That IS what I do for a living.)
I'm not sure what I'm throwing here...but I'm throwin'.
So, what does one do when one is tempted. Yes, my friends... I said tempted. How long can anyone hold out against invitation after invitation. I mean outright "I don't care if your married. Call her and tell her your going to be late." - I guess W. C. Fields had it right. "You can't cheat an honest man." That could be applied here.
Marriage is hard enough without outside influences. And what if it is "spiritual"? Is strength enough? Should it be?
Anyone care to comment, or...nail to me to the wall? C'mon, even you lurkers out there. Let's hear what'cha have to say. ;-)
Hmmm... ... this is a tough one. Is there something missing in the marriage that has prompted the opportunities being presented to you? Are you looking elsewhere for what you want in your marriage? Or, conversely, are you growing out of your marriage? I mean, it does happen... people grow apart... and not to any specific fault to one or the other... it happens, change happens and growth happens. I guess you need to ask yourself "Why am I seeing this as a temptation?" or "Why am I acting on this?" And see what it is that is more deeply within you, rather than just see the superficial surface stuff.... Try to see it for what it is.
Re: None...just stirring the pot.
Hmmm. Very good response Kell. I hadn't considered some of the points you brought to the table. (my narrow depth of field?) I'm going to have to meditate on this a bit...
... this is a tough one. Is there something missing in the marriage that has prompted the opportunities being presented to you? Are you looking elsewhere for what you want in your marriage? Or, conversely, are you growing out of your marriage? I mean, it does happen... people grow apart... and not to any specific fault to one or the other... it happens, change happens and growth happens. I guess you need to ask yourself "Why am I seeing this as a temptation?" or "Why am I acting on this?" And see what it is that is more deeply within you, rather than just see the superficial surface stuff.... Try to see it for what it is.
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