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Pathways to Change II
Pathways to Change II
written by: Lady Adriana
As we all know Change even on the smallest scale can be scarry thing to do for a lot of people but it teaches growth and new Knowledge every step of the way. For instance you get a group of individuals that have been doing things the same way for years, you ask them to maybe do a few things different you will be meet by reluctance.Why? One part of it is Fear (backed up much by supporting evidence to not change a thing and what happened the last time they did try to do so), secondly certain individuals have a hard time making changes (set in their ways),and also they had to deal with a lot of problems from others around them the last time they did try to do something a new inovative way (others fearing change and being set in their ways). Not wanting to change due to fear or being way to set in your ways can sometimes lead to the repetative disorders we see in some people today and other problems like addictions. Not changing in no way is going to help them grow in knowledge, will, or new abilities, but it will make them stagnate. Frankly I would like to see the day that everyone can just mix up the Ol' stale leftover shelf way of doing things once in a while and make a Gumbo out of it so they can get a better perspective on what it is like tobe in the other persons shoes for a while and maybe change somethings for the better. Take the time some time and do something you have never done before that you were curious about doing but were scared to do out of a fear of some kind (although Keep it Legal please!!!) or get a different type of job you always wanted to do, switch places with a coworker (as long as the boss knows), or something on these lines. You never know you find find that you like doing things different once and a while and find it enjoyable or stress relieving! You will soon find that being diverse and not set in you ways can be beneficial to you and others in many different ways also you sometimes it can be profitable, but you first must get over the fear or anxiety part. Face it people deep down inside there is apart of you that is doing these kinds of thing to yourself that is why you get set in your ways for the mere comfort of same ol' same ol' ness.
Change can lead to growth, Knowledge and strenght. Knowledge is as a tree that branches out to grow new ways of gaining strength at the roots. Cliping back the limbs to prevent change and the roots will also not grow.
Blessing to All,
Lady Adriana
HSG Founder & Elder
www.housesaintgermain.org
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