breezy402
Unregistered User
(12/1/03 12:53 pm) Reply
Secret relationship with Muslim man
I am a American Christian woman (non practicing). A few months ago I met a Muslim man from Turkey who has been here in the USA for 2 years. We talked and then he asked me for my phone number. He started calling me and we started a friendship. I was impressed in how hard he worked and how he has been able to learn English. I feel drawn to him like a magnet. One time he called and asked if he could see me and I told him yes. I have been divorced for 5 years and I have not been out with a man for those years and getting this attention from a handsome man was something. That time we were together intimately and then I found out he was still a virgin. I asked him why he gave me his virginity. His reply to me was that he was very attracted to me and he did not know why he chose me. He told me that he has never had a girlfriend or called a woman before. He even came to see me during Ramadan. He has called me everyday for the past 2 months and we have gotten to know a lot about each other. I have fallen deeply in love with him. But he tells me that he could never let his family know about us or else they will make him get engaged to someone from his country. He said when he marries in 5 years it will have to be with a woman his mother chooses for him. Yesterday he told me that his brother is making him move to Canada next month so he can help him financially with his studies. I am hurting really bad inside and I have been crying for the past 2 days. I have not had a sexual relationship since my marriage and I feel joined with this man, now I have to say goodbye to him. He tells me he will be in contact with me and that we will continue communication and visits with each other until he's ready to get married to another woman. I love him but I don't know what to do. I respect his Muslim beliefs, but I am confused as to why his family has so much control over his life. He's 25 years old and I am several years older than him.
Ghettogurl
Unregistered User
(12/3/03 11:40 pm) Reply
Forget him
Maybe it's a culture thing cause I don't see why he has to marry a girl his mother picks for him. Or maybe he is lying.
NANCYNANCY1222
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(3/5/04 6:05 am) Reply
I KNOW WHAT YOUR FEEL GOD KNOWS
I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR FEELING. I CAN TALK FOREVER TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. IM WITH A ARABIC MUSLIM MAN 15 YEARS AND HIS FAMLIY DONT KNOW IT. IF YOU KNEW HOW I CRY.. SISTER EMAIL ME I HAVE SO MUCH TO TELL YOU I EVEN BECAME A MUSLIM FOR HIM... IM AMERICAN PUERTORICAN..... EMAIL ROBLESABDUL@MSN.COM SO WE CAN TALK AND IM EACH OTHER OK MY NAME IS NANCY
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