Upset
I actually almost cried last night I was so upset about the way people have been acting around me lately. People used to always comment on my body like saying I was thin and stuff...but for the past few months nobody has said anything other than boyfriend and he doesn't count.
Other people used to say stuff about it but now nobody does in fact its like they are noticing everyone always is thin except me.
Example A - this is the one which causes me more distress
A girl commented on a friend - who is the same size as me - and said your so skinny when he was standing right next to me. She looked at his stomach and said 'do you go to the gym?' while I was standing right there - she didn't even remark on me as if I was fat or something.
It really upset me. I don't think my weight has changed, unless I am actually fat now and everyone can see it apart from me or something. Why would people do that? It is just something that used to get commented on and now it just passed over...
I hardly ever eat, I'm always saying I'm fat...and my friends say I ain't fat but they don't protest enough. Just thinking about it again is getting me upset, why are people doing this to me? I'm not fat....I am so upset. I still can't believe that bitch just passed me over...I can't believe this!!!!
Re: sure
This goes someway to explaining your behaviour on these boards.
You like to be the centre of attnetion, you're needy and always want to hear good things about yourself, and offer out put downs to others whom you see less worthy than yourself.
an egotistical man, who thinks he's more than he actually he is, and that because you seem to be able to manipulate a few around you, that you can do it to everyone.
If you know you're not fat, stop worrying, maybe your friends have started to see your ego
Re: hrd to miss
I think people on here are being a bit too harsh, but I also think that you're overreacting a lot.
You don't sound fat, and you're definitely not obese but why would it bother you so much if you were fat? You don't have to have people constantly telling you that you have an amazing figure 24/7, just be happy with yourself and let it be at that!
O-Ren Ishii: The price you pay for bringing up either my Chinese or American heritage as a negative is - I collect your fucking head!
Quote: And I have never been rude too anyone on this board - ever
Excuse me??? You might want to read the posts that you post sometimes, even in the most sensitive posts you are completely un sympathetic towards anyone, and you annoy me and I am sure many more.
Now you want sympathy of us because someone didn't say to you are skinny....how pathetic.
I suggest you lighten up and be a nice to people on this board, and treat people with respect, just how you want to be treated & get some real issues!
Re: hrd to miss
Dirtty, I don't know what world you live in, but in this world, being thin isn't a good thing. It makes you looks ill & it definitely isn't attractive.
I'm sure you had other qualities besides your skininess that made you attractive to your boyfriend.
And dude - this is not a problem. A problem would be if your boyfriend was dying or if you had a massive argument with your friends.