People who SI [self-injure] aren't bad or making up problems – they're doing it to deal with pain. Reacting with anger and horror doesn't help and only hurts. Keeping someone from SI also does further harm – they need to stop on their own, at their own pace.
Self-injury is a symptom of an underlying problem(s). It is a coping mechanism for dealing with high levels of emotional pain. Look beyond the symptom(s) to the person – focus on the underlying issues.
It takes courage for self-injurers to admit they need help. If they disclose to you that they are hurting themselves it indicates they are willing to trust you. Show care, concern, compassion, respect, acceptance, and patience.
Self-injury & Related Issues
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Luv & Hugs
Meggs
xxx