i tried almost everything
well about two weeks ago I made friends with a girl who I've known only by face. her name is Jess ([ please don't put someone's pic here unless you've got ther permission. thanks ) and to tell the truth i would like to be more than that. I tried all the usual ways; sunny day on a dock, carnival, let her dye my hair (BTW im sporting a green Mohawk because of a bet).
Last night she invited me over for movies (i figured here we go, a chance to get close...) so I went and we rented big fish and master and commander. we got there and her parents are in bed and her little sister looks sleepy. we put in Big Fish and through the first hour the 3 of us are just laughing our butts off. Then the lil'sister goes to bed and i figuure that now she might get close (at least cuddle in my arms) but noooo, shes just there in front of me laying down enjoyng the movie and she does this during both movies.
Now i know that i should just ask her out but either my radar is off or she just wants to me to make the first move. I know she has lots of other friends both male and female but she always calls me first for anything (concerts, walk around ECT.) she was even contemplating with me if I could come to Hawaii with her this summer, rumor has it that shes been pondering about it with her friends but still this is insane.
Dude, with my limited experience... make the first move. All that can happen is she says "I wasn't interested in that." However, it sounds like she is, but doesn't want to be too "forward." If she gives ya the "I wasn't interested in that" line, just say "Oh, I thought you were, with the discussions we've had, and I like you a lot" or something similarly cheesy, and hell, even if she didn't, she might afterwards if ya play it right... :)
Re: i tried almost everything
LOL yah, that's wicked not OK. Unless you've got her permission, please don't post pictures up like that. That's a little too much personal-ness for my tastes.
Re: i tried almost everything
Yes, make the first move, and we really dont need to know what she looks like. She could probably never look as good to us as she looks to you, anyway.
Registered User
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(5/1/04 10:56 pm) Reply
Re: i tried almost everything
yup, definitely time to make the first move. don't wait too long though, 'cause she might lose interest if you don't do anything soon.
seems like she's definitely sending out "i like you" vibes.
Re: i tried almost everything
You could always just keep wimping out... then finally make the move when you are so far into the friend zone that she wants you to be her Bride's maid for her wedding to the guy who actually did pick up on the vibes.
Evilmagus Registered User
Posts: 599
(5/3/04 5:44 am) Reply
Re: reALWAYS and I mean always, always, always make the first move. If you don't like it, tough, get used to it, girls will not make it, and they want an assertive, confident guy.
~Evil
Nazbuk Registered User
Posts: 360
(5/3/04 6:59 am) Reply
Re: re
I missed the pic. What she cute? =P
Make the first move. If she rejects you there is no harm or anything. The only thing you have to worry about is your wounded pride at that point but if you have a green mohawk on a bet then that shouldn't be an issue either.
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